{"id":656,"date":"2023-05-10T11:18:46","date_gmt":"2023-05-10T05:48:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/privategirlsinsydney.com.au\/blog\/10-ways-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/"},"modified":"2023-05-10T11:18:46","modified_gmt":"2023-05-10T05:48:46","slug":"10-ways-to-spice-up-your-sex-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/privategirlsinsydney.com.au\/blog\/10-ways-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"image-element__wrap\" style=\" \"> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Two hands intertwined in room with intimate lighting\" class=\"lazyload transition--fade-in \" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_1600x.webp?v=1668509110\" data-sizes=\"auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_5000x.webp?v=1668509110 5000w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_4500x.webp?v=1668509110 4500w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_4000x.webp?v=1668509110 4000w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_3500x.webp?v=1668509110 3500w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_3000x.webp?v=1668509110 3000w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_2500x.webp?v=1668509110 2500w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_2000x.webp?v=1668509110 2000w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_1800x.webp?v=1668509110 1800w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_1600x.webp?v=1668509110 1600w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_1400x.webp?v=1668509110 1400w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_1200x.webp?v=1668509110 1200w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_1000x.webp?v=1668509110 1000w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_800x.webp?v=1668509110 800w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_600x.webp?v=1668509110 600w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_400x.webp?v=1668509110 400w,&#10;    https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_200x.webp?v=1668509110 200w,\" data-aspectratio=\"1619\/749\" height=\"749\" width=\"1619\" http:=\"\"\/>&#8221;<br \/>\n        style=&#8221;;&#8221;<br \/>\n  \/&gt;\n<\/div>\n<p><noscript> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/articles\/HEADER_dca206ac-5b83-4967-b526-479bcd832c91_2000x.webp?v=1668509110\" alt=\"Two hands intertwined in room with intimate lighting\"\/><br \/>\n<\/noscript> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How often do you try new things in the bedroom? Whether it\u2019s a brand new sex toy or a minor adjustment to a sex position, there are plenty of ways to change up your routine to increase pleasure and play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spicing up your sex life doesn\u2019t always mean dressing up or trying fancy new sex tech \u2014 it can just be about diversifying your routine or engaging in fun, healthy, playful experimentation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">VUSH\u2019s sexpert Steph has put together a list of the top 10 ways to spice up your sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>10 ways to get creative in the bedroom<\/b><\/h2>\n<h3><b>1. Start the conversation<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>How often do you actually discuss sex with your partner\/s? Talking about sex is an act of intimacy (not to mention great foreplay). Having regular, ongoing discussions about sex is a great way to check in on how satisfied you and your partner are, and discover whether there\u2019s anything new you\u2019d like to try. The first step to spicing things up in the bedroom is reflecting on what you actually want to add to your sex life, and then talking about it!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not sure how to get this convo started? VUSH\u2019s new deck of\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/curiosity-cues\" title=\"VUSH Curiosity Cues\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">50 conversation cards<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are the perfect opportunity. From sexual awakenings to dirty talk and turn ons, these cards include all the questions you\u2019re dying to know the answer to. Using conversation cards inspires creativity in the bedroom and gives you a chance to learn more about your partner\u2019s sexuality. (They also offer a great opportunity to give feedback and set boundaries if you\u2019ve been waiting for a chance to have a potentially difficult conversation.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/curiosity-cues\" title=\"VUSH Curiosity Cues\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/CONVERSATION.webp?v=1668675184\" alt=\"VUSH's Curiosity Cues displayed on orange velvet couch next to one hand and a checkered skirt\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Include a vibrator<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Yep, of course we\u2019ve included vibrators in the list.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adding a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/collections\/vibrators\" title=\"VUSH vibrator collection\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">clitoral vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> into penetrative sex is a must-try for all vulva owners. Contrary to popular belief, the clitoris is the sex centre of the body (not the vagina!). The clit is the only part of the body that is designed purely for pleasure. Adding a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/empress-2\" title=\"VUSH Empress 2 Clitoral Vacuum Stimulator\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">clitoral suction vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/gloss\" title=\"VUSH Gloss Bullet Vibrator\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bullet vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/swish\" title=\"VUSH Swish Dual Tip Vibrator\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dual tip vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can make a world of difference to a vulva owner\u2019s ability to orgasm and receive pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clitoral vibrators not your thing?\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/collections\/internal-vibrators\" title=\"VUSH internal vibrator collection\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Internal vibrators<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are just as exciting. Try combining a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/myth\" title=\"VUSH Myth G Spot Vibrator\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">G spot vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> while a partner stimulates the clitoris with their hands or tongue. Otherwise, why not opt for mutual masturbation while a partner uses a toy of their own?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t forget about all the ways you can use a vibrator on other erogenous zones, such as the anus, nipples, or neck. We recommend versatile vibrators like a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/rose-2\" title=\"VUSH Rose 2 Bullet Vibrator\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bullet vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/majesty-2\" title=\"VUSH Majesty 2 Wand Vibrator\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">wand vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for whole body pleasure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/myth\" title=\"VUSH Myth G Spot vibrator\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/VIBRATOR.webp?v=1668675258\" alt=\"Person wearing beige underwear holding VUSH Myth pink G Spot vibrator behind back\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Add lube or massage oil<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We view lube as an essential to both solo and partnered play. A\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/feelin-myself\" title=\"VUSH Feelin' Myself Intimate Gel\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">good quality lubricant<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> makes everything feel smoother and more pleasurable by reducing friction. Lube is also super sensual to apply \u2014 putting it on is foreplay!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If sensuality is what you\u2019re after, try a massage oil! Massage can be a great form of foreplay as it can relax your muscles and produce endorphins that make you feel good in your body, leading to increased sexual desire. It\u2019s also a great way to get a fix of physical touch, if that\u2019s one of your\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/blogs\/vush-blog\/love-languages\" title=\"5 love languages\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">love languages<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. (Be careful though, oil can break down condoms and dams, so we recommend sticking to\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/feelin-myself\" title=\"VUSH Feelin' Myself Intimate Gel\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">water-based lube<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> if you\u2019re using barrier methods.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/feelin-myself\" title=\"VUSH Feelin' Myself Intimate Gel\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/LUBE.webp?v=1668675307\" alt=\"Pink bottle of water-based lube with white lid against pink bathroom tiles\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Try a vibrating stroker<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you know VUSH now stocks non-intimidating, beginner-friendly\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/collections\/couples-play\" title=\"VUSH Couples Play collection\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toys for penises<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? A\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/sol-vibrating-stroker\" title=\"VUSH Sol Vibrating Stroker\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">penis stoker<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a great way to mix things up in the bedroom. With internal ribbing and 10 vibration modes, a stroker is like an expert-level handjob. Whether you\u2019re using it alone or with a partner, a stroker adds a new type of sensation that can\u2019t be achieved with hands alone. Try it with a partner by using the vibrations on the shaft of the penis while a partner stimulates the tip with their hands or tongue. Hot tip: Apply\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/feelin-myself\" title=\"VUSH Feelin' Myself Intimate Gel\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">water-based lube<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to the inside of the toy before use and adjust the wings to accommodate size!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/sol-vibrating-stroker\" title=\"VUSH Sol Vibrating Stroker\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/STROKER.webp?v=1668675345\" alt=\"Couple's hands holding VUSH Sol orange ribbed vibrating stroker\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Use a cock ring<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/orb-pleasure-ring\" title=\"VUSH Orb Pleasure Ring\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cock ring<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the perfect way to add a little spice to intercourse. Not only does a cock ring enhance erections by maintaining and sustaining blood flow to the penis, it can also prolong sex by delaying ejaculation. And the best part is, mutual pleasure for both partners \u2014\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/orb-pleasure-ring\" title=\"VUSH Orb Pleasure Ring\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">VUSH\u2019s pleasure ring<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> includes motorised rabbit ears to allow the receiving partner to enjoy vibrations against their clit or anus during intercourse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Adding a pleasure ring is a surefire way to spice up intercourse without making a major change or breaking the bank. You can still enjoy the classic sex positions that we\u2019re sure you\u2019re well across, such as missionary or cowgirl\/boy, just with the added benefit of extra stimulation for both partners.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/orb-pleasure-ring\" title=\"VUSH Orb Pleasure Ring\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/RING.webp?v=1668675404\" alt=\"Midshot of woman in green dress holding VUSH Orb cock ring with vibrating ears facing man in white singlet and pants\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>6. Fill out a \u2018yes, no, maybe\u2019 list<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, we\u2019ve also got plenty of cost-free options to spice up your sex life too.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A yes, no, maybe list is a way for partners to explore sex while also setting boundaries. Some call the red, yellow, green traffic light system, but either way, the goal is to categorise sex acts into \u201cfirm no\/hard pass\u201d, \u201cmaybe, depending on the context\u201d and \u201chell yes\u201d. From there, you can work out which new things you and a partner are both keen on, and which activities you want to steer clear of. This is an easy way to start a discussion about sex or communicate turn ons\/offs if this doesn\u2019t come naturally to you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As part of our new couples play collection, VUSH has launched a yes, no, maybe list of their own \u2014 check out our <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/curiosity-quiz\" title=\"VUSH Curiosity Quiz\">curiosity quiz<\/a>. From dirty talk to roleplay, this list include a bunch of fun things to include into your sexual repertoire. This is a free PDF resource for all VUSH babes, so go ahead and <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/curiosity-quiz\" title=\"VUSH Curiosity Quiz\">download it now<\/a>!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/collections\/couples-play\" title=\"VUSH Couples Play collection\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/QUIZ.webp?v=1668675516\" alt=\"Two men on orange couch looking at phone, one rests his head on the other's shoulder\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Add a pillow<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Adding a pillow or prop to your sex life can make a bigger difference than you\u2019d think. Place a pillow (or two) underneath the receiving partner\u2019s pelvis so their hips are raised. Adding a pillow increases clitoral contact and helps you engage your core\/glutes to increase sensitivity, while giving you flexibility to move your pelvis to promote orgasm. During intercourse, adding a pillow allows for deeper penetration.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t have a pillow nearby? Use a towel or anything else soft and comfy to support you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/PILLOW.webp?v=1668675548\" alt=\"Cream white pillows on messy bed\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Change up your location<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Having sex somewhere new always makes it seem more exciting, right? Put the bedroom on pause for a second and try getting steamy in the shower, cuddly on the couch, or kinky in the kitchen. A new location can feel fun, exploratory, or even forbidden (if that\u2019s your vibe). Plus, having an armchair or a bench nearby is bound to inspire some creativity in your sex positions.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Done it in every room in the house already? It may be time to travel. Everyone\u2019s got a good vacay sex story, and if you don\u2019t, this is your chance to create one. Go for a sexy staycay and book a hotel room, or start thinking about your next holiday!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/LOCATION.webp?v=1668675581\" alt=\"Two hands holding each other romantically on the shore of the beach\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Dial up the sexting<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speaking of new places to have sex, have you tried online? Sexting and sending nudes is a fun way to explore without being in the same room. Sexting is a great form of foreplay \u2014 it builds anticipation and creates intimacy between partners. It\u2019s also an opportunity to communicate your deepest desires and firmest boundaries. It\u2019s a chance to build on your sexual communication, in a hot way! Don\u2019t forget to get consent, though. You can find more\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/blogs\/vush-blog\/guide-to-sexting\" title=\"Guide to Sexting - Tips &amp; Etiquette\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tips on sexting<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on our blog.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/blogs\/vush-blog\/guide-to-sexting\" title=\"Guide to Sexting - Tips &amp; Etiquette\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/SEXTING.webp?v=1668675618\" alt=\"Pink neon sign that reads 'SEND NUDES' against brick wall\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><b>10. Experiment with edging<\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Edging is a form of orgasm control that aims to intensify orgasm. The goal is to delay your orgasm by bringing down the intensity of the stimulation just before you feel like you\u2019re going to finish, then building it back up again. You should feel more pleasure each time you do this, so that the eventual orgasm feels more powerful.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Including a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/collections\/all-products\" title=\"VUSH products\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibrating sex toy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a great way to try edging. With a sex toy, you can adjust the pleasure settings to suit the amount of pressure or intensity you need. Another option is to switch from toys to hands (or other body parts) when you want to back off a bit, then bring the toy back in when you\u2019re ready to amp things up. We recommend a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/sol-vibrating-stroker\" title=\"VUSH Sol Vibrating Stroker\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibrating penis stroker<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/collections\/vibrators\" title=\"VUSH vibrator collection\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">clitoral vibrator<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/products\/sol-vibrating-stroker\" title=\"VUSH Sol Vibrating Stroker\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0402\/8855\/1068\/files\/EDGING.webp?v=1668675646\" alt=\"Man in white singlet and orange unbuttoned shirt lying on couch holding vibrating stroker with partner\" style=\"float: none;\"\/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>Read more on Stimulation:<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Curious about partnered play? Read our\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/blogs\/vush-blog\/partnered-sex-toys\" title=\"Guide to incorporating toys into partnered sex\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tips for introducing sex toys with a partner<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and\u00a0<\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/au.vushstimulation.com\/blogs\/vush-blog\/how-to-ask-for-what-you-want-in-the-bedroom\" title=\"How to Guide: Ask For What You Want In The Bedroom\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">guide to asking for what you want in the bedroom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For more content on sex and relationships, read our VUSH Stimulation Blog. 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